losing weight is a very selfish act no one is going to help you more then you can help yourself when it comes to your goals that you set. Some days I have a very hard time knowing i'm about to go to the gym for an hour after I've already spent 9+ hours away from my daughter and by the time I get home get dinner taken care of and am finally able to sit down 30 minutes before her bed time i'm not exactly in the mood to play babies with her or even read a story for that matter i'm so worn out that I just want to sit down.  I hope she understands someday that I am not that mean of a person i'm just tired worn out ready to call it a day, only reason i'm up tonight is she's STILL up because of the darn wind here in Oklahoma. A mothers job is the best job in the world I wouldn't trade it for anything :)